Why do we give so much of ourself to a person. Does this person really need it? Isn't it a contradiction of life that when we love someone so much that we overwhelm them with too much of ourself? We want to spend more time with this person. We want to keep messaging this person. We want to know what they are doing every minute of their life! If we truly love someone then we should set them free. Give them the freedom to be themself.