Perfectionism attaches to what is valued in the culture.
A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.
Someone asked me why women don't gamble as much as men do, and I gave the commonsensical reply that we don't have as much money. That was a true and incomplete answer. In fact, women's total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage.
If women have young children, they are one man away from welfare.
If I read the word 'problematize' one more time, I'm going to vomit.
Work is valued by the social value of the worker.