Its hard in the beginning for most to realize that they are planted in a desolate place and later on down the road when you look back to where you were in the beginning before you up rooted yourself and replanted where you are currently it becomes clear to you as the very same people that hated on you and talked bad about you have been quiet since then. Remember that those who just talk bad about you and hate on you instead of encouraging you and watering you will never lift you up when you are down and most definitely will never praise or talk good about you once you start succeeding in life, If you are currently planted in a desolate place it’s time to up root yourself and move on