You have two choices in life: To lead your life or to let life's circumstances lead you.
Change what you can, accept what you canβt and focus on all of the wonderful aspects of life that inspire good feelings within you. Things are good in many ways, always.
Obstacles are opportunities in disguise.
You donβt actually want the things or experiences themselves. You want the good feelings associated with the things or experiences.
The cost of our goals is the life we exchange in pursuit of them and because the outcome of your attempts can never be guaranteed, you owe it to yourself to enjoy the pursuit itself.
You will always have the exactly equal opportunity to enjoy yourself regardless of the choices you make.