If you think someone or something other than yourself is responsible for your happiness or success, I'd guess you're not that happy or successful.
Once you embrace your value, talents and strengths, it neutralizes when others think less of you.
Achieving success is a challenge but so is struggling so you may as well choose success.
If all the world's a stage, I suggest you start performing at your best.
Don't ask for directions if you're not going to start the car.
The only parts that really matter and take commitment in wedding vows are; worse, sickness and poorer. Better, richer and healthy is pretty easy to deal with.