As much as I liked Wolves as a boy and it was a childhood dream to play and perhaps manage for the club, I've come to Bolton and this is where I want to stay.
The bonding of the team is exceptionally important and trying to create a good team spirit and to have some fun.
Whoever you are playing and whatever you are playing against you have to weigh up tactically how you approach that game. That has always been a part of my make-up, having made my way through every division and finding out what management is all about.
If I got sacked because my results weren't good enough at Everton, I accept it, but getting sacked when they finish eighth, it is ridiculous. In fact, it is ludicrous.
Since Newcastle I've had a fantastic time at Blackburn and then here, at West Ham.
I'm hardened over many years. You toughen yourself for whatever job. You either take the good with the bad or don't bother.