You're not a product of your nature. That is your genetic makeup or your nurture, the things that have happened to you. Of course those things affect you powerfully, but they do not determine you.
Reactive people... are often affected by their physical environment. They find external sources to blame for their behavior.
Stop setting goals. Goals are pure fantasy unless you have a specific plan to achieve them.
Both times I was in India, I could not get people to listen to each other. I had to literally tell people to listen to each other and tell them that they can't get creative and find alternate solutions if they don't listen to each other. There's a lot of arguing and justifying.
Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often unconcious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character.
If there's one thing that's certain in business, it's uncertainty.