If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather. Try to understand the blackness, lethargy, hopelessness, and loneliness they’re going through. Be there for them when they come through the other side. It’s hard to be a friend to someone who’s depressed, but it is one of the kindest, noblest, and best things you will ever do.

I am a lover of truth, a worshipper of freedom, a celebrant at the altar of language and purity and tolerance.

It was extremely important to show that Wilde's sexuality was not just some intellectual idea. It was real, and it was about the human body. To just have mentioned it and not shown it would have been, I think, peculiar and wrong.

You don't sit down and write a wish list about the person you are going to fall violently in love with. It just doesn't work like that.

Love in all eight tones and all five semitones of the word's full octave.