Take the high road. No matter how much strife, and consternation, frustration and anger you might be confronted with - don't go to that level.
I have my mantra about silhouette, proportion, and fit. I believe that when they are in harmony and balance, you'll look great in anything.
But my manners also came from when I was in college and began participating in critiques. You have to speak with someone respectfully about their work and be honest and open, without hurting them.
I love HGTV. I love the Food Network.
I learned quickly that if the student's perception is that you're not listening to them, and not understanding them, they discredit you.
Part of what was in the ether all around me growing up, until I was between 19 and 20, was a terrible, debilitating stutter. It was part of what made me very reclusive as a kid.