Increase the chances of getting what you want by finding out first what you do not want.
When you are able to hit the target frequently, you also become one because of its predictability, assertiveness and competence.
Evolving sometimes only becomes an option when we stop being one, because of better ones.
Develop first in yourself what attracts you to someone so that it is possible to find the person who matches you.
Dependent on someone else's approval to feel good can make you always subject to the choices they make in life.
When you leave your well-being under the responsibility of another person the result will never be ideal, because the only one able to take care of you very well is yourself.