Exactly Straight women who surround themselves only with gay men or white people who refuse any other race into their circles are unhealthy and it has more to do with one's individual fear and individual closets.
We all have our own closets to come out of.
The gay community just recognizes what their closets are and we straight have to spend years trying to figure out which closet we are trapped in.
It frustrates me about myself when I see I'm not taking the road that demands more of me.
The message of transformation and how we all can live from our heart, not just from our head, was a very important message for me to learn in my own life.
The more we can purge ourselves of the diseases we create the more we can become magnificent people.