If you genuinely care about someone, you wonât let them ruin themselves. Itâs as simple as that. Donât use your âsupportive friendâ excuse to justify your ignorance. If someone in your life is living a self-destructive lifestyle, donât encourage them. Donât stand on the sidelines and watch. Do something. Tell them theyâre worth more than that. That theyâre bigger than what theyâre facing. Tell them there are better ways to heal. Better ways to grow. Tell them they can be friends with better people.Tell them thereâs no escape from reality but it only gets better if you face it. Tell them theyâre killing themselves slowly by intaking drugs. Tell them you love them and donât want them to get hurt. Tell them that you care. Do. Everything. You. Can. Because even if they may not listen, at least youâll know you tried.