If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.
You need to spend time crawling alone through shadows to truly appreciate what it is to stand in the sun.
Wisdom is nothing more than confirmed imagination: just because one did not study for his exam does not mean that he should leave it blank.
When spontaneous demoralizing thoughts seep into your conscience, don't trip...allowing them to fester. These are random tests of your conviction and determination. Large or small, your reaction to such intrusions is a defining moment for which no one else, but you, can mitigate.