To lovers out there…. In a relationship you must give as much as you take or give more. You can’t always withdraw , without putting something in . You will exhaust your love balance and there won’t be anything left for you. Most relationship are running on negative balance, because one partner is only benefiting and receiving from the relationship without contributing.
To lovers out there… Don’t use a child to fight your failed relationship battles. Especially if things didn’t turned the way you planned. The child still need love from both parents regardless of their differences.
To Lovers out there…. The balanced scale of love in a relationship, is that a relationship is about you, about your partner and about both of you. You must be happy, your partner must happy, both of you must be happy. No one should be more prioritized than the other.
To Lovers out there…. It matters not, if you are dating a good person or a bad person. If your dating someone who is wild or dating someone who is shy. Dating someone who is a Christian or someone who is a party freak. If you are dating someone who is famous or anonymous . What really matters is how they treat you and how are they to you.
To lovers out there… Sacrifices made in a relationship, should be the ones that contribute towards your happiness. If they don’t , those are not sacrifice, but you are in an abusive relationship..
To Lovers out there…. Please note that, People don’t move on from a break up or divorce. When they see the person whom they broke up with, being happy, doing well in life and living their best life. Being favored and love by everyone. They only move on, if you turn up to be nobody.You are miserable, suffering and sad
To lovers out there… Stop doing match making for people. When people look perfect for each other. That doesn't mean they deserve each other. Some people may look good and presentable. Speak well and seem like they have it all together, to find out that they are bad people.
To lovers out there… People are more concern about the number of years they are in a relationship, rather than the care, respect, affection, treatment and love they get from the relationship.
To lovers out there… The partner that has more money or the one that is more beautiful or handsome in a relationship. It is the one that becomes abusive in a relationship. Never be in a relationship with someone who thinks they are doing you a favor by being with you.
To lovers out there… There are people who are damaged inside. They might speak well, look beautiful, sexy, fit , gorgeous, handsome. They might be filthy rich or having high profiles ,statuses or big titles. Don’t just get into any relationship with anyone without doing a background check on them. This is also why most relationship fail. It is because, People don’t take time to know who they are dating . They only do investigation , when they think their partner is cheating.