When in disagreement, do not employ a vulgar, defaming or callow response; in the absence of logic, respond in a refined manner; word choice and tone always matter.
This Englishwoman is so refined, She has no bosom and no behind.
Contentment is, after all, simply refined indolence.
The more refined one is, the more unhappy.
Certainly I was relatively a refined person. No way a tramp.