I believe in being diligent but also cut yourself some slack. It's okay in the grand scheme of life.
To not have the wherewithal to give fully to a relationship bothered me.
I used to work in public health, and the issues were sustainability, how the funds were being delineated, and if the funds were actually helping the people we think they're helping.
Some people just don't subscribe to labels.
Sometimes you're just regular. Sometimes you wake up, and your breath stinks like everybody else, and you had a bad hair day.
I don't even know anyone who hasn't watched 'Sex and the City.' If you didn't, we can't be friends.